Rule 5.98.Meet-and-confer requirements; document exchange
Division 1. Family Rules · Chapter 6. Request for Court Orders · Article 3. Meet-and-Confer Conferences · Adopted 2013 · no amendments on record · Last verified September 10, 2026
Full Text of Rule 5.98
Plain-English Summary
Before the hearing date, all parties and all attorneys must meet and confer in person, by telephone, or as the court orders, and must discuss and make a good faith attempt to settle every issue — even where only conditional or partial agreement is possible. Cases involving domestic violence are exempt from the requirement.
The document exchange is the part with consequences at the hearing. Before or while conferring, the parties must exchange all documentary evidence they intend to rely on to prove any material fact. The court may decline to consider documents that were not given to the other side first. Material held back for rebuttal or impeachment is outside the requirement.
Frequently Asked Questions
Do I have to meet and confer before a family law hearing?
Yes, unless the case involves domestic violence. All parties and attorneys must meet and confer in person, by telephone, or as ordered, and make a good faith attempt to settle all issues.
What happens if I do not exchange my documents?
The court may decline to consider documents that were not given to the other party before the hearing as the rule requires.
Do I have to hand over my impeachment material?
No. The exchange requirement does not reach documents submitted primarily for rebuttal or impeachment purposes.
Amendment History
Rule 5.98 adopted effective January 1, 2013.