Rule 88.07.Termination of Mediation.
Part III · Rule 88: Domestic Relations and Paternity Cases — Calculation of Child Support — Mediation — Self-Represented Litigants · Last amended July 1, 1991 · Last verified July 22, 2026
Full Text of Rule 88.07
Amendment History
Adopted Dec. 27, 1990, eff. July 1, 1991.
Plain-English Summary
Rule 88.07 governs how mediation under Rule 88 comes to an end before an agreement is reached. It gives either party an exit: after two hours of mediation ordered under Rule 88.04, either party may terminate the process. Mediation does not have to run indefinitely if a party decides it is not working.
The rule also puts an obligation on the mediator to end the process in certain situations, regardless of what the parties want. The mediator must terminate mediation if continuing would harm or prejudice one or more of the parties or the children, or if a party’s ability or willingness to participate meaningfully is so lacking that a reasonable agreement is unlikely. These triggers protect the parties and their children from a process that has stopped functioning as intended.
Once mediation ends, the mediator reports the termination to the court. But the rule limits what the mediator can say about why. The mediator does not state the reason for termination, with one exception: if the termination stems from the mediator’s own conflict of interest or bias, that is disclosed, and another mediator can then be appointed. This balance keeps the substance of mediation confidential while still letting the court know the process has ended and, when relevant, arrange for a new mediator.
Frequently Asked Questions
How soon can a party end mediation on their own?
Either party may terminate mediation ordered under Rule 88.04 at any time after two hours of mediation.
When must the mediator terminate mediation?
When the mediator believes continuing would harm or prejudice a party or the children, or when a party's ability or willingness to participate meaningfully is so lacking that a reasonable agreement is unlikely.
Does the mediator tell the court why mediation ended?
Generally no. The mediator reports the termination but does not state the reason, except when termination is due to the mediator's own conflict of interest or bias.
What happens if the mediator terminates due to their own bias?
The rule allows another mediator to be appointed in that situation.
Can mediation end even if both parties want to continue?
Yes, if the mediator determines that continuing would harm or prejudice a party or child, the mediator must terminate the mediation regardless of the parties' wishes.
Does this rule apply to mediation programs established under Rule 88.02?
The rule's two-hour termination provision specifically addresses mediation ordered under Rule 88.04, while the mediator's independent duty to terminate applies to protect parties and children generally.