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Rule 503.Primary support need

Ch. XVII: Delaware Child Support Formula · Last amended 2023 · Current through June 1, 2026 · Last verified September 9, 2026

In one sentenceRule 503 splits the children's primary support need between the parents in proportion to income, covering allowances, child care, health premiums and sometimes private school, with special provision for shared equal placement at 164 overnights.

Full Text of Rule 503

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(a) Primary Share. Each parent's Net Available income will be expressed as a percentage to be known as the Primary Share of the parents' combined Net Available income. The percentage will be derived on a case-by-case basis by dividing each parent's Net Available income by their combined Net Available income. This is to allow the children's primary support needs to be equitably allocated between the parents and to facilitate the sharing of extraordinary medical expenses. If the person seeking support is not a parent, then the Primary Share for the obligor before the Court is 50%.
(b) Primary Support. Each parent's Primary Support Obligation is determined by multiplying their Primary Share percentage by the sum of all of the elements of the children's primary support need. The elements of the primary support need are:
(1) Primary Allowances. The primary allowances shall be comprised of two components, a per household component and a per child component:
(i) The per household component is 25% of the Self Support Allowance minus $25.
(ii) The per child component is 25% of the Self Support Allowance plus $20.
(iii) Each component shall be rounded to the nearest multiple of ten (10). Half child allowances may be rounded to a multiple of five (5).
(iv) To determine the allowance for each household, multiply the number of children by the per child component, and then add the per household component to the result. The allowances shall be adjusted in January of each year.
(2) Child Care. The Formula facilitates the equitable allocation of all expenses incurred for the care and supervision of the children of this union by either parent required for the parent to work. No hypothetical or attributed child-care costs are permitted. Cancelled checks, child-care contracts, receipts, and other instruments created in the usual course of business shall be admissible in addition to the testimony of the parties to prove child-care expenses.
(3) Health Insurance Premiums. A portion of premiums paid by a party for health insurance covering dependent children of the union shall be included as an element of primary support as follows:
(i) That portion shall be three-quarters (3/4) of a party's out-of-pocket premium unless the party has other minor children to support as described in Rule 502(e) in which case the proportion will be one-half (1/2).
(ii) This may include insurance premiums paid by a guardian or through a stepparent. However, no recognition will be given for a premium paid by a guardian or through a stepparent if the policy covers any of the guardian's or stepparent's own children. The portion allocated to the children by way of a stepparent shall be as in subsection (1) by reference to the parent to whom the stepparent is married. The portion allocated to the children by way of a guardian shall be controlled by reference to whether or not the guardian is also guardian to other children of other unions.
(4) Other Primary Expenses. The special needs of some children require parents to regularly incur other expenses including, as permitted by subsection (c), private school.
(c) Private School. Private or parochial school expenses shall be included as a primary expense only where:
(1) The parties have adequate financial resources, and
(2) After consideration of the general equities of the particular case including consideration of whether:
(i) The parents previously agreed to pay for their child(ren)'s attendance in private school; or
(ii) The child has special needs that cannot be accommodated in a public school setting; or
(iii) Immediate family history indicates that the child likely would have attended private or parochial school but for the parties' separation.
(d) Shared Equal Placement. Shared Equal placement (at least 164 overnights annually in each household) is established by order of the court, by written agreement, or in the absence of any order or written agreement by other evidence. Additionally,
(1) Each child is counted as one half in each household;
(2) The Court shall establish additional primary support allowances to accommodate any such partial allocation of placement;
(3) Any modification of an order based upon a change between primary and shared equal placement must be proven by court order or written agreement or, in the absence thereof, by clear and convincing evidence.
(4) Shared Incidental Expenses. Upon a showing that a parent is not equally contributing to shared incidental expenses, the Court may impose any appropriate sanction, including but not limited to recalculating the support obligation as if the child resided primarily with the other parent.
a. An expense is considered a “shared incidental expense” based on a totality of the circumstances, including:
i. Whether the parents agreed or acquiesced to the expense being incurred (even if the parents did not agree how to divide the expense);
ii. Whether the expense is customarily incurred by similarly situated families;
iii. Whether both parents benefit from the expense;
iv. The amount of the expense and the frequency with which it is anticipated to be incurred; and
v. The parents' respective abilities to contribute to the expense.
b. The following expenses shall be presumptively considered shared incidental expenses: haircuts; school lunches; instrument rentals; school supplies; school project supplies; enrollment/uniform and other mandatory fees (but not equipment) associated with participating in local recreational sports or extracurricular activities; and local field trips not requiring overnight accommodations or air transportation.
c. An action to enforce the provisions of this Rule shall be plead with particularity.
(5) If all the minor children before the Court reside in shared placement, and the calculation indicates a net order of less than $50 per month, no affirmative payment of current support shall be ordered.
(6) Either parent may be assessed an affirmative obligation without regard to which parent filed the petition.
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Amendment History

Delaware prints each rule’s amendment history as a single “Credits” line naming every order that adopted or amended it. It is reproduced verbatim below.

[Adopted effective August 28, 2008. Amended effective January 1, 2011; April 20, 2015; February 1, 2019; February 1, 2023.]

Plain-English Summary

The share. Each parent's net available income is expressed as a percentage of the parents' combined net available income — their Primary Share — so the children's needs and extraordinary medical costs are allocated in proportion to ability to pay. Where the person seeking support is not a parent, the obligor's share is 50%.

The need. Each parent's primary support obligation is their share multiplied by the total of the elements of the children's primary support need.

Allowances. The primary allowance has a per household component — 25% of the self support allowance minus $25 — and a per child component, 25% of the self support allowance plus $20, each rounded to the nearest multiple of 10, with half-child allowances rounded to a multiple of 5. A household's allowance is the number of children times the per child figure, plus the per household component. The figures are adjusted each January.

The two-part structure reflects how households actually cost money: a second child adds less than the first, because the roof over them is already paid for.

Child care. All costs of caring for and supervising the children that either parent needs in order to work are shared. No hypothetical or attributed costs are permitted — the expense must be real. Cancelled cheques, child care contracts, receipts and other business records are admissible alongside testimony.

Health insurance. Where a party pays premiums covering the children of the union, three-quarters of their out-of-pocket premium is included as primary support — or one-half where they have other minor children to support. Premiums paid by a guardian or through a stepparent may count, but not where the policy also covers the guardian's or stepparent's own children.

Private school. Included as a primary expense only where the parties have adequate financial resources AND the general equities support it — considering whether the parents previously agreed to private schooling, whether the child has special needs a public school cannot accommodate, or whether the family's history indicates the child would likely have attended but for the separation.

Both conditions, in that order. A court will not put a family into debt for tuition, and will not treat the separation as a reason to end a schooling the child would otherwise have had.

Shared equal placement. Established by court order, written agreement, or other evidence in the absence of either, at 164 or more overnights annually in each household. Each child is counted as one half in each household, and the court sets additional primary support allowances to accommodate that split. Changing an order between primary and shared equal placement must be proven by order or written agreement, or by clear and convincing evidence.

Shared incidental expenses. Where a parent is not contributing equally to them, the court may impose any appropriate sanction — including recalculating support as though the child lived primarily with the other parent. Whether an expense counts depends on the totality of the circumstances: whether the parents agreed or acquiesced to it even without agreeing how to split it, whether similar families customarily incur it, whether both parents benefit, its size and frequency, and each parent's ability to contribute.

Presumptively included are haircuts, school lunches, instrument rentals, school supplies, school project supplies, enrolment, uniform and other mandatory fees for local recreational sports or extracurricular activities (though not equipment), and local field trips that need no overnight stay or air travel. An action to enforce this must be pleaded with particularity.

That list is doing something valuable: it settles, in advance, arguments that otherwise recur monthly for years.

Small orders. Where all the minor children are in shared placement and the calculation produces a net order of less than $50 a month, no affirmative current support is ordered. And either parent may be assessed an obligation regardless of who filed.

Frequently Asked Questions

How is the child support obligation divided between parents in Delaware?

Each parent's net available income is expressed as a percentage of their combined net available income, and that Primary Share is multiplied by the total of the children's primary support need.

What is included in the children's primary support need?

Primary allowances, child care needed for a parent to work, a portion of health insurance premiums covering the children, and other primary expenses including, where permitted, private school.

When is private school included in Delaware child support?

Only where the parties have adequate financial resources and, after considering the general equities, factors such as a prior agreement to private schooling, special needs a public school cannot accommodate, or a family history indicating the child would likely have attended but for the separation.

What counts as shared equal placement?

At least 164 overnights annually in each household, established by court order, written agreement, or other evidence in the absence of either. Each child is counted as one half in each household.

What are shared incidental expenses?

Expenses presumptively including haircuts, school lunches, instrument rentals, school supplies, school project supplies, enrolment and uniform fees for local recreational sports or activities, and local field trips. A parent not contributing equally may face sanctions, including recalculation as if the child resided primarily with the other parent.

Source & verification. The rule text and amendment history are reproduced verbatim from the Delaware Family Court Rules of Civil Procedure (Fam. Ct. Civ. R. 503), and every rule has been checked word for word against the Delaware Family Court’s own published edition of these rules. Current through June 1, 2026. The plain-English summary is original and written by us. Last verified September 9, 2026. · Official source
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